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[This will be re-written
to explain the Family Dynamics aspect of Applied Psycho-Neurobiology and
the technique that Dr. Klinghardt teaches for dealing with stresses that I
now attribute to being transmitted via the "Social Nervous
System", part of the Triune
Autonomic Nervous System described by Dr. Porges. I would like to also
show the possible explanation of Family Constellation Work dynamics as being
caused by the flow of Orgone energy (discovered by
Wilhelm Reich, M.D.
and taught through the American College of Orgonomy) through the bodies of
the living and how this is impacted by the resonance of ancestors whose
energies left traces in the biophysical record that is passed from
generation to generation.]
See also:
Birth Order: The order of health; what your family ranking reveals
about your medical destiny
Klinghardt's Five Levels of Healing:
Includes Family Constellation Work
[more]
The information below is excerpted from article by
Dietrich Klinghardt, M.D., Ph.D.
These are some items from the larger
article on Applied Psycho-Neurobiology.
There is a lot of information on the internet about Family Dynamics; two
approaches are the work of Denny Johnson and his Rayid
Family Birth Order information, and the work of Burt Hellinger and his
Family Constellation work.
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Note: the items he lists below are different
than the current Hellinger community considers most useful. Comments I
received about the differences include:
...I
noticed something that could be confusing to readers. Events
that can lead to unresolved psycho-emotional conflicts come out of
one’s personal biography (conception to the present) and are
susceptible to resolution with APN 1 (PK) - colored glasses, eye
movements, tapping, etc. Those issues, like weaning and
toilet training, from the Klinghardt list that appears on your link,
do not usually lead to entanglements. Another list you have seen and
refer to as one used by the Hellinger community includes the kinds
of events that are transpersonal, go beyond one’s biographical
history and often lead to entanglements with ancestors or other
“family” members like aborted siblings, former spouses, victims,
perpetrators..... These issues are addressed with APN 2,
Family Constellations – either on the table a la Klinghardt with
guided imagery, or in workshops. A key distinction,
though of course life tends to be sloppy and they interact.... |
Events That
Frequently Leave Behind an Unresolved Psycho-Emotional Conflict
The intra-uterine
period:
- Emotional
problems between parents at the time of conception or later during
pregnancy
- Thoughts of
abortion
- Attempted
abortion
- Feelings of older
siblings about the ever-increasing loss of attention by the mother
- Physiological
problems in the womb (mother's smoking, amalgam fillings, alcohol
abuse, illnesses, accidents, medical drugs - especially
psychopharmacological medications taken by mother, malnutrition)
- Being aware of a
twin dying ("vanishing twin"), 6-10% of all pregnancies
start as twin-pregnancies, less than 2% of pregnancies end with the
birth of twins
- Birth and the
time before, during, and after (drugs, trauma,)
- Post-birth
trauma: needle pricks to heel, silver nitrate in the eyes, cutting the
umbilical cord, circumcision and other invasive procedures often
without proper anesthesia.
The early years:
- Birth of younger
siblings
- Emotional climate
with parents and older siblings
- Weaning the baby
(too early, too late, etc . . .)
- Not breastfeeding
- Traumatic toilet
training
- Relationship with
babysitter
- Early sexual
abuse Drug use by parents
- Physical abuse
- Emotional abuse
or abandonment
- Neglect
- Childhood
diseases
- Illnesses/hospital
stays of a parent
- Relationship to
pets, nature, other kids
- Kindergarten
- The young
years:
- First day in
school
- Relationship to
teachers and other students
- Moving
- Changing school
- Academic
performance
- Athletic
performance
- Dealing/becoming
conscious of physical impairment
- The locker room
- Relationship with
kids of the opposite gender
- Social roles
- Roles in the
family
- Abusive parents
Puberty
Adolescence:
- Academic/athletic
performance
- First romance
- Competition
- Peer groups/peer
pressure
- Fights/injuries
- Operations:
tonsils, appendix
- Dental
interventions - placement of amalgam fillings (causes shyness, etc . .
.)
- Parties/dancing
- Ritual abuse,
cults, black magic
- Sports
- Accidents
- Divorce of
parents
- Physical/emotional
abuse
- First sexual
experiences
- Abortion
- Betrayal/broken
trust in first deep, often non-sexual relationship
- Disappointments
- Depression/thoughts
of - or attempted ñ suicide
- College/separation
from family/friends
- First drug
experience
- Academic pressure
The grown-up
years:
- They never come
- Relationship
problems
- Separation from a
loved one
- Broken
friendships
- Academic failure
- Divorce
- Death of a loved
one
- Financial
disasters
- Financial
problems
- Failure (job,
university, relationship, sports)
- Legal problems
(jail, convictions)
- Illnesses (of
oneself or loved ones)
- Diagnosis of a
serious illness
- Loss of energy
- Loss of sex drive
- Signs of aging
All of these events
and circumstances may leave an Unresolved Psycho-Emotional conflict behind
or the patient can negotiate them successfully (that simply means the
person becomes more mature and stronger because of the way the conflict
was negotiated and navigated).
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